bonds that cant be broken

Given my own experience, change is really a big thing. Change, has the ability to cause a perfectly good friendship to come crashing down, the strong bonds of a couple to break loose, a person to make the wrong choice. I've been through all. And not one of them feels good.

Some of yall may know, something happened between me and a very close friend of mine back in 2009. Our years of friendship went downhill and smashed into ten thousand pieces in a single day. Devastation. I literally died inside. Her reasons: I changed. Didnt think much of it then.. But thinking about it now, yes. Maybe I did change.

Change cannot be avoided. Given the different surroundings and people, its just a matter of time before you are not the same as before. It may be good or bad, the consequences caused are likewise, good or bad. I don't believe in everlasting happiness and neither should you. Couple at the age of fifteen, and below.. thinking that they well last forever, those people are the ones I deem delusional. Or maybe they're just too deep into their premature feelings to notice the prominent fact that no. They are not going to be together forever.

People change. Thats life. Live with it. A couple may be together, happy. The next day, the guy sees someone new and leaves the poor girlfriend behind. Yes. Be appalled. Fucking bastards like that do exist. It leaves the pitiful girl behind, wondering - why the hell did he change. But everyone will have to get used to it, there is always someone better than yourself. However this situation cannot be applied to ANY couple. The guy breaks up with the girl, the girl cries her eyes to death. The girl ends the relationship, BIG DEAL.

Guys can turn ugly especially when he knows he can no longer get a girl. Fuck that. Friends, can turn especially nasty when jealousy comes by. Old things will be replaced by the new, no matter what relation. But lets just get used to it, they're living in the past.

Crystal: why haven't you posted?

Me: lazy.. lol

Crystal: ): I want to see what other degrading names you can come up with for guys HAHAHA

best.